I had a patient at who said, “I know my family wants to help by coming to see me, but they're wearing me out”.
The biopsychosocial approach has taught us many things about pain.
One of them is the importance of social interaction.
Like everything dealing with humans, it can be simple or complex.
Too much and too smoothering can increase pain.
Too little and too lonely can increase pain.
Just like the three little bears, people need what's just right for them.
This study agrees with this philosophy:
“In line with laboratory research, there is evidence that everyday-life social contact can alleviate, but also intensify pain, depending on the type of social support. Everyday-life emotional support seems to reduce pain, while extensive solicitous support was found to have opposite effects. Moreover, positive short-term effects of social support can be overshadowed by other symptoms such as fatigue.”
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38687594/